Ulihlwempu tata!Ndingathi izinto ezinje zenzeka kuninzi lwabantwana kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo, umama uba yintandokazi, ngenxa yokuba sihlala sihlala sijikeleze.Ngaloo nto andithethi intandokazi ngengqiqo "ithande ngakumbi", kodwa kuphelaekhethwayo ngenxa ye hkancincingokwenene.
Kuxhaphake kakhulu ukuba iintsana zidlule kumaxesha okukhetha umzali omnye kuphela kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo (okanye zonke).
Ukudinwa kumzali othandwayo, lusizi ngowaliweyo.
MNIKE UXANDUVA ELIGCWELE UTATA EBUSUKU
Kusenokwenzeka ukuba inyani yokuba nguwe osoloko ujongana nentombi yakho ebusuku kungenxa yoko le nto igxotha utata.
Ukuba ufuna ngokwenene ukutshintsha oko ngoku, mhlawumbi kuya kufuneka umnikeuxanduva olupheleleyo ebusuku- ubusuka baqho.Ubuncinci okwethutyana.
Oku, nangona kunjalo, kunokuba nzima kakhulu ukukuphumeza ngoku, kuni nonke.
Ukongeza, ukhankanya ukuba utata usebenza ebusuku ngamanye amaxesha.Oku kuthetha ukuba nokuba utata unqwenela ukuba snuggle nentombi yakho, lutshintsho yesiqhelo yakhe HER, kwaye mhlawumbi hayi konke oko ulindele, ufuna kunye neemfuno xa evuka ebusuku.
Iintsana zizithandi zesiqhelo.
Endaweni yoko, zama la macebiso mabini angezantsi kuqala, kwaye nje ukuba ezi zinto zisebenze, ungashukuma ukuvumela utata aphathe ubusuku.
I. Mvumele uTata abambe INKQUBO YOKUQALA YOKULALA ngokuhlwa
Enye into enokwenzeka kukubavumela utata athathe uxanduva lwenkqubo yokuqala yokulala ngokuhlwaokanye mhlawumbi ngexesha lokulala ngexesha lasemini.
Iqhinga kukuvumela ngokwenene bobabinifumana eyabo indlela (entsha).ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka.Ngale ndlela baya kufumana iindlela zabo ezintsha kwaye intombi yakho iya kwazi ukuba inokuxhomekeka kwezi ndlela zokuzonwabisa kunye notata.
II.XA EVUKA UMNTWANA YIBONE EBHEDENI YAKHO
Enye into ongayizama kukuba ungamgcini ezingalweni zakho ukuba ubuyele ukulala ebusuku, kodwa endaweni yokombeke ebhedini yenu phakathi kwenu nobabini ixeshana.
Ngale ndlela bobabini umama kunye notata baya kuba kufutshane, nto leyo enokuthetha nje ukuba uya kumamkela utata amncedise okwethutyana.
Nangona kunjalo, kufuneka ulumke malunga nokulala kunye, kuba kunokuba yingozi yokwenene kumntwana wakho.Ke hlala uphaphile okanye uqiniseke ukuba uphumeze zonke iindlela zokunciphisa umngcipheko wokulala ngokubambisana.
PHATHA EYAKHO IIMVAKALELO
Nangona konke oku kuqhubeka, indlela umama notata - kwaye ingakumbi utata - bazive ngayo mhlawumbi kubaluleke ngakumbi kunemeko yokwenyani;yakhousanainokuba ayiboni ngxaki, ifuna umama qha...
Ndabuza umyeni wam ukuba ithini icebiso lakhe elingcono likatata-to-tata kule meko;ngokucacileyo, ukho amaxesha amaninzi.Nantsi into ayithethileyo:
Zama ukuyiyeke imvakaleloyokuphoxeka kunye / ukuziva ulusizi okanye umona okanye nokuba nomsindo ngomfazi wakho.Umntwana ufuna nje lowo amdingayo kwaye oku kuyahluka ngokuhamba kwexesha.Endaweni yoko, chitha ixesha elininzi kangangoko kunokwenzeka nentombi yakho kwaye umvuzo uya kuza!
Eyona nto abantwana bayidinga kakhulu ukuze bazive bekhuselekile xa bekunye nomntu othile (umama, utata okanye nabani na) lixesha kunye.Upholile malunga nale meko ethile, unganyanzeli nantoni na.Endaweni yoko, yiba naye kakhulu ngendlela eyakhayo, imini okanye ebusuku.
Ke, ndicinga ukuba ingcebiso yethu edibeneyo kukubavumela umntwana abe noMama xa efuna kwaye uqinisekise ukuba utata uyavunyelwa ukuba angene xa kunokwenzeka.Khumbula ukuba kuqhelekile ukuba usana lungavumi ukulala noyise.Iqhelekile nakwabancinci!
Thetha ngesicwangciso (kubandakanya ukulala, ukwabelana ngebhedi okanye nantoni na) ukuba ubusuku bubalulekile kuwe.
Ixesha lokuposa: Feb-20-2023
